Forbidden love is the one form of love everyone wants to have experienced at least once in their lifetimes. Forbidden love has some features that normal everyday love never reaches. It’s that weird sense of excitement that never goes away no matter how much you are satisfied. It’s the rush you feel that you have while you are together, the rush of knowing its wrong and the rush that you can be caught at any moment.
Forbidden love is not something that is new to our world, in fact I think that back in the seventeen and eighteenth centaury it was discovered and in full bloom. Back then times were different and if you had noble blood you would marry a nobleman no matter what you said or what you wanted. In that time status and money meant the world and even meant more than true love or happiness. They believed that money could buy anything including emotions.
It was then when stableman fell in love with the Duke’s eldest daughter who has been promised to the son of a Lord or a Count. When the lady would tell him she was to be wed, the stableman would declare his undying love for her and wanting her to choose him over her Lord. Of course she could not but agrees to have an affair with him, they promise each other that no one would breathe a word. So it was done and a hot and passionate affair starts between them. The Lady then starts to sneak off to the stables or the woods to be with her true love.
The passion shared between the two of them is unbelievably good. It’s like tasting something new everyday and experiencing it a little longer than the afternoon before. You know what you are doing is wrong but in some sense how can loving someone be wrong? How can wanting to be with someone for every moment of your being, be so damn wrong? Who decides what is wrong and right when it comes to love?
Would it truly be the end of the world of a lady of leisure end up married with a commoner? Would it be so bad to spend your life with someone you love but instead of a ten bedroom mansion you live in a one bedroom excuse for a house but at least you know the man sharing your bed is the man you love, the man you desire and the man you crave?
Or does those feelings all crumble away when it all becomes real? Now it’s not just an afternoon game being played by you and the help. When it becomes real it’s not just a hot passionate love affair which you can turn on and off when it pleases you? Now it’s the real life with you having to work hard along side your loving and gorgeous husband. If you imagine it all and you can still bare to be with him then its perhaps true love and then my advice is jump for it.
Mostly a forbidden love is just a phase that someone goes through. It shapes both parties for the future and it rarely works out in the end. The simple reason for that is because it’s not right to start off with so how can it later become right, something that your family will accept? There is a reason that it’s forbidden in the first place. A reason that does now might not make sense but in a few years from now when you look back to this love affair, then it might be clearer.
Have fun in while it lasts but remember that something forbidden is never meant to last a lifetime.